Oh my blerg.

Oh my blerg.

Whaaaaaaaat is liiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiife???  You guys, I’m not gonna lie, it is rough trying to write this thing especially when you just spent the last 3 minutes and 19 seconds crying because you accidentally deleted a draft you’d been working on for two days.  Teachers, you know when a student comes up to you and says “the computer deleted my homework”?  Turns out, this is actually a thing that happens.

Moving on.  Merry Christmas and Happy New Year, friends and family, near and dear, close and far.  And since it’s been forever since I’ve written, Happy Easter, 4th, Thanksgiving and Christmas…from 2015…oops.  Never fear!  One of my resolutions for 2016 is to be better at communicating because, although you are all constantly on my mind, worried about how everyone is surviving all this Trump bullsh*t, it’s so comforting to Facetime, skype, email, or even have a little text volley across the ocean.  Technology is the only thing that makes living far away at all bearable (well, that and a cheeky long weekend in London from time to time), so let’s raise a toast to the inventor of the micro chip, good old what’s-their-name, without whom this life (and this blog) would not be possible.

Resuscitating the blog (affectionately called  the “blahg” or “blerg” depending on my mood and/or Michigan accent) is (hopefully) a part of this resolution.  In the last 2.5 years this blog has been viewed 5,093 times by 2,790 visitors in over 40 different countries.  I need to keep pushing myself to connect and share experiences with teachers and travelers around the world, and see where this journey takes me.

But the real reason for writing again is much simpler.  The fact is, I can barely remember anything anymore (shout-out to that almost-30 crowd…), and 2014-2015 was a sensational stint that I hope to cherish forever, in exact, high-def detail.  So, in honor of that old lady with a waning memory that I will eventually become, here are some highlights of the past 16 months–a series of windows into different cultures that, 1) lead me to a deeper understanding of the world and my place in it, and 2) have rendered in me a gratitude so deep that my heart nearly bursts out of my chest every time I walk out the door.

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Above, awestruck inside Royal Albert Hall before our dress rehearsal of Mahler 2 at the 2014 Proms in August.  It was everything a Proms performance should be: sold-out crowd, standing-room-only rockstars on the circular floor and the post-concert stomp.  The energy was unforgettable.

To the right, walking by RAH in the morning and people had already started queuing for our concert that night.  If you don’t get tickets with seats, you can queue-up before the show for standing-room on the large circular floor right in front of the orchestra.

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To the right, a pre-concert shot at the Basilica superiore di San Francesco d’Assisi.  A 5-day tour with S:t Jacobs Kammarkör brought us to beautiful Assisi, Fano and San Gemini in September 2014.  We sang Poulenc’s Figure Humaine as well as newly written octavos by Italian composers for a composition competition in Assisi. The city was built of all white stone, and one of my favorite memories was walking through the markets and winding streets one morning with a wedge of Pecorino in hand.

October 2014 brought a week of fjord-gazing with high school friend Matt Miller.  Pictured below is Voss, where we were stranded after torrential rain flooded the train tracks.  We enjoyed unlimited cups of earl gray tea at our hotel where Edvard Grieg once slept!

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Living abroad is teaching me to never take friendships for granted.  Making new friends can be really tough (especially when things like January and Netflix go so well together…).  It takes time, effort and vulnerability, but, wow, there are some really amazing people out there.  Thankful for my Stockholm friends, my home away from home.

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But no matter where you go, you always have your people.  Siblings Lochlyn, Siri, Otis and me hanging out at Dad’s during Christmas break, December 2014.

img_0548Fantastic girls-hang in London, January 2015, seeing/stalking the Harry Potter Experience and Voces8 with my sister-from-another-mister, Katie!  She and her amazing husband, Colin, now live in Geneva, Switzerland, but I met them 7 years ago in Houston where Katie and I were both choir conductors.  Even though they are a 2.5 hour plane ride away, it still feels like they are neighbors!  Our hobbies now include randomly meeting up in different countries, lots of walking, drinking and speaking languages that aren’t our native tongue (obviously not in this picture because we are in England).  img_0549

 

First time skiing in Europe and getting paid to do it!  Every February, our school has a sports day where students get to choose different winter activities to do for the day.  The teachers chaperone and I was chosen for skiing!  We loaded up 5 charter busses at 6am, drove north for about 2.5 hours and spent a day on the slopes.

All about that teacher life…

 

Sometimes you do things that really freak your mom out, like flying to Prague by yourself for mid-winter break.  Turns out, even after traveling alone with Hallie for 4 days, I still like her.  But omg she is SO needy in the mornings stopping for coffee, like, every 30 minutes…

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First glimpses of Prague from the Charles Bridge


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Perfectly blue morning at St. Vitus Cathedral

The best choir to sing with in Stockholm!  S:t Jacobs Kammarkör before a concert at Storkyrkan in February.

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10644528_10106550069455124_6646713027616855597_nThe first week in April was pretty much spent looking exactly like this.  Liz and Jon came to Stockholm for 9 days and it was so special showing them my new home.  Excursions included Vasa Museet, the Royal Palace museums, Drottningholm, the Sea History Museum (with pancake buffet whaaat???) the Medieval Museum, a boat to Tallinn Estonia, a Final Four MSU basketball game at 2am, smörgåsor and Frozen, and Hallie’s Obligatory Fika Tour (or “Stockholm by mouth” as I like to call it).

A week after Liz and Jon left Stockholm, S:t Jacobs Kammarkör hit the road for Italy again, this time to perform in the Duomo in Florence (coincidentally over my 29th birthday).  Ever since Ms. Munn’s AP Euro class during junior year of high school, I’ve had a slight obsession with the Renaissance, so to finally make it to Florence, to sing in THE Dome of all domes…was a major #lifegoal accomplished.

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Singing Mozart’s C moll Messe in Prato, outside of Florence

Pictured below is a shot from the Stockholm Early Music Festival last May, performing with German/Turkish orchestra Sarband.  In a brilliant weaving of religions and cultures, chants from both Western and Eastern traditions were chosen based on similarities of text, meaning and even melodic parallels, and performed with various accompaniment styles from the different cultures.  This was one of the most exotic and mystical concerts I’ve ever done, and I so wish I could bottle up the essence of this collaboration and sprinkle it on people when particularly bigoted things start coming out of their mouths.

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Long-weekend trips to foreign countries are probably my favorite part about the last two years, especially when it involves meeting up with old friends.  Here’s one such trip to Geneva in May 2015, showing off its spring glory.  After a day of pouring down rain and inappropriate shoes (but also amazing quiche, chocolate, poulet, fondue, biere, vin, some madrigal sight-reading and K&C’s awesome apartment) I blissed out in Swiss-ness as they toured me around their new digs.  IMG_1245

Colin carrying all of our wine!  He is the best!  And doesn’t Katie have the greatest smile?  Enjoying lunch on a terrace in Geneva 🙂11049577_949493575350_1683150569965718538_n

And just when you thought you were done hearing about Katie and Colin, they came back a few weeks later to visit me and Voces8 in STALKholm (teehee, see what I did there?)!

 Which brings us to…the Mitten!  After school finished in June, a fast and furious week back in Michigan was made to catch up with friends and hang out with the fam.

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No U.S. visit is complete without a road trip.  Here’s Otis and me enjoying a game at Fenway Park in Boston, watching our favorite Red Sox lose…but any game that involves belting “Sweet Caroline” in the 7th inning stretch with an ice cold Yuengling in hand is a win in my book.  In addition to Boston, we spent time in Rockport, MA and Providence, RI for family reunions.  Nothing recharges the batteries more than some TLC with the Reeds and DeSimones.  They are by far what I miss most about America and I miss them every single minute.  I’ve already planned on a 6-week trip back home this summer and I can’t wait to see everybody again!

In July 2015, I embarked on the grandest adventure yet: a month in Australia and New Zealand.  It all started when one of my closest work friends, Ryan, invited a few of us to Sydney to stay with his family.  Plans erupted from there and a side-trip to New Zealand was planned almost immediately.  Dreams of marrying Legolas and moving to Middle Earth had never been so close to realization!  After 10 days of bus travel around NZ’s south island, I would meet Ryan, Emily and Erik in Sydney for another 3 weeks of travel around Australia.  There are too many amazing details and people to mention, but below are some highlights of the trip!

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Galloping around the southern hemisphere, Franz Josef, New Zealand


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Hiking in Mt. Cook National Park


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So lucky to have met travel buddy, Wes, along the way!  Sharing PB&J sandwiches and crushing mountains near Lake Hawea, New Zealand


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THESE GUYS!  After 10 days in NZ, this was the BEST way to arrive at Sydney Airport!  Ryan (far left) made the sign (which I still have) and his entire family opened up their homes to us as we traveled around.

 

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Team Austral-yeah after seeing La Traviata at the Sydney Opera House

Below, Emily’s spirit animal, a sleepy koala bear 🙂 Feeding kangaroos on our first day in Australia.  Clutch!

Below are a few shots from Cairns, a city on the northeastern coast of Australia and our home-base for 4 days while we explored the Great Barrier Reef and rain forests.

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High above Barron Gorge National Park, overlooking a wet tropical rainforest.  At one point we were 1788 feet above sea level.  Terrified and overwhelmed by the expansive beauty.  The following day we took a day trip through parts of the Daintree Rainforest and out to Cape Tribulation, where navigator James Cook had once run aground in the 1700s.

Here we are, falling in love with Melbourne!  It’s like the perfect mix of Chicago and Berlin–Great skyline, very walkable, and incredibly diverse which makes for fantastic food selection and a great arts scene.  Perfection.  On the right, a sunset picture as we watch an Aussie Rules Football game and down meat pies.

 

A few roadtripping photos…

And of course, what is a trip to Australia without a day at Bondi Beach?

On my way back to Stockholm, I stopped for 24 hours in Guangzhou, China.  It was by far my most vivid experience as an “other,” the longest I’ve gone without seeing anyone who looked like me or spoke my language.  Of course, I’ve had glimpses of it daily for the last 2.5 years, but nothing to this extent.  It gives you a real understanding of the how/what/why of racism.  The poverty and overpopulation of Guangzhou were also heartrending.  In fact, for a few days after returning to Sweden, which felt (feels) like heaven, I could not get over what I’d seen and felt while in China, accompanied with immense guilt, which turned into days of research and googling Chinese history and politics.  I still get choked up reading a story about another human rights activist locked up in who-knows-where China.  To say I enjoyed my too-short time there would be an overstatement, but very necessary to feel and experience this realm of emotions which I’ve been protected from for most of my life.  I didn’t take many pictures, but here are a few.

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Temple of the Six Banyan Trees

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So many Pokey Stick varieties.

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img_0561August was a whirlwind of preparing for the new school year and simultaneously trying to hold on to every last bit of summer.  Three of my oldest friends–Marianne, Courtney and Sars–came out for a week-long visit filled with meatballs, sun, boats, crawfish parties, great conversation and companionship.  It was like the best 7-night sleepover ever! Here we are at the ABBA museum on a gorgeous sunny day.  After this, we got ice cream and sat in an apple orchard all afternoon.  So lucky to have friends who will travel thousands of miles to be together!

At the end of August, I sang with the Swedish Radio Orchestra and Choir for a performance of Schoenberg’s Gurrelieder at the Östersjöfestivalen (Baltic Sea Music Festival), conducted by Esa-Pekka Salonen.  I reveled in every bar of this lush music and really enjoyed singing for Salonen.  We performed in Stockholm’s Konserthuset, which is where the Nobel Prize Ceremony is held every year.

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You know you’re in the right place at the right time when you randomly run into your step-brother at a bar in Stockholm!  Joe frequently comes to Sweden for business and, most of the time, we are able to connect.  This particular time, however, I had a choir rehearsal and then a birthday party to attend, so we had given up trying to grab dinner.  Imagine our surprise when I walk into Akkurat (one of the best bars in Stockholm!) and see Joe sitting there with his colleague!  So great to see you and will always remember this night!

 

Another tour to Italy brought S:t Jacobs Kammarkör to Rome in October 2015.  Ryan, Emily, Katie and I headed down a few days early during our Autumn break to peruse the Roman Forum, Coliseum, and the Vatican.  Here we are outside St. Peters!  Later that night, the choir went on a private tour after-hours where we got to SING in the Sistine Chapel!  We also met up with Katie and Colin who just happened to be in Rome at the same time!
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A new endeavor this year is conducting Osqstämman, an ensemble of students from KTH, one of the universities here in Stockholm.  This is a shot from the 30th anniversary concert during November.  Rehearsing with them is a highlight of my week and it’s been so great working with this age group again on a diverse range of music.

 

There is no crazier time for music teachers than December.  However amazing students and colleagues make this a magical season.  This is a photo from our St. Lucia concert last term.  You can learn more about this beautiful festival in a blog I wrote 2 years ago, Sankta Luciuh-oh.

After much inner turmoil, I decided not to go home for Christmas this year.  I may never do it again, as I discover I really need time with my family to feel grounded and stable, but that being said, a better Christmas away from home is impossible!  Katie, Colin and I traveled to Cambridge to spend the holiday with his brother, Matthew, his wife, Libbi and loving dog, Auggie.  They were the best hosts ever,preparing fabulous food and drinks daily, taking us on a walking tour of Cambridge, a 2nd viewing of Star Wars, queuing for the King’s College Carols service, singing at midnight mass…the list goes.  I will never forget this wonderful week with such special people.

On December 30, after a picture-perfect English Christmas, I jetted off to meet friend Amanda in Lisbon, Portugal for New Years.  We’d both never been before and were excited to explore a new country–little did we know just how much fun would ensue that week.  We found our niche at a great hostel in central Lisbon, taking advantage of the superb food (lots fish and pastries) and wine that Lisbon has to offer (at fraction of Swedish prices), as well as walking tours and pub crawls, and of course enjoying the company of our fellow travelers (some of whom have PROMISED to come visit Stockholm 🙂 ) Isn’t it wonderful sharing brief moments in time with humans from around the world?  Here are some highlights from our trip!

And now, on to 2016!  We’re already a month in and I hope you are all having a safe, healthy and fulfilling year.  If I’ve never said it to you personally, you are always welcome for a visit to Stockholm.  With the help of friends and family all over the world, I’ve been very lucky to travel so much the last few years, and now it’s my time to return the favor.  Plane tickets are expensive from the U.S. but you can always stay with me for free to help offset the cost.  Although, full disclosure, I may drag you to a few choir parties or band gigs.  People always say, “Oh, I wish I could travel,” and the truth is, with a little help from friends and some budgeting, you really can.  Your trip starts today, at my email address 🙂

OK, I’m done now, I promise!  If you lasted til the end of this you are either my parents or totally procrastinating.  Get back to work, people!  All of my love.  H.

 

The one from day 363

Hi friends and family,

Apologies for letting nearly 6 months go by without writing!  Stockholm is keeping me very busy bagging my own groceries, riding backwards on public transportation and having more conversations about the weather than I thought was humanly possible!  This morning the sun woke me up around 4:00 am (I mean, full sunlight, guys) and even now as I type it is still a little light outside (11:00pm).  So bizarre!

The future is also bright approaching my one-year anniversary in Stockholm.  A month ago we finished the 2013-2014 school year and I am ecstatic to say that I will be continuing for 2014-2015.  The school has offered me a permanent contract, which isn’t anything terribly different, but makes being an immigrant a bit more like a citizen–I’ve applied for a long-term VISA and will not need a new one every year; it helps make my job and life here more stable.  For this I am so honored, grateful and relieved, all at once.  Although it was a huge transition from conducting in Texas, the opportunity to collaborate with teachers and staff from 13 different countries and adapt lessons to teach entire classes of bi-, tri- and quadrilingual (spell check is telling me this is not a word, but, I’m telling you, these kids exist!) students was an enlightening experience.  The importance of a global education has never been greater–thank you to all who have been so encouraging as I delve deeper.

Oh, this is funny.  So, a few months ago at a choir rehearsal, our PR member told us she’d been contacted by “Rolling Stones management.”  Something about singing a song with them when they came to Stockholm on tour.  At the time, she wasn’t really sure if it was a scam or not, but promised to keep us posted on what developed.  But you know what?  I feel as though this deserves a post of its own, so…stay tuned.  To be continued… (this is totally just a ploy to keep you interested in my blog…is it working?).

And now, it’s been a year.  A year ago on July 31.  Leaving the US with two suitcases and a head filled with what-ifs.  People will tell you you’re brave.  Well, over the last 363 days, I’ve been terrified, angry, I’ve cried, sobbed, doubted everything, been far away when bad things happen, wanted my parents, wanted my friends, wanted old childhood pets that have been gone for years, paid $10 for a beer (…every weekend), criticized, questioned, been homesick and heartbroken.  That doesn’t make me brave.  I’ve also learned, loved, discovered, expanded, compacted, absorbed, read and reread, taught and retaught, moved and moved again, sung, played, imbibed, eaten, cooked, danced and dreamed my way through it.  No, that doesn’t make me brave, it just makes me stubborn as hell.  Learning that life as this type of a person can be tough, lonely even at times, is a funny part of the mystery. Embrace it.

The reward is worth it.  Your potential to contribute is worth it.  There is beauty that only you can bring to this world, so be generous.  It is worth it.  That particular student’s “Oh, I get it!”; meeting new co-workers; making new friends; singing for the king and queen, The Rolling Stones, The Proms, that one person in the audience who really needed to hear it that day…it’s all worth it.  (This entry is turning into a bad motivational speaker from L’Oreal).  Of course you wouldn’t think that you’d be able to move halfway across the world and carve out a new existence if you didn’t just try.  So, don’t ever give up, kids!  (Sorry)…

So, Stockholm.  Another year awaits us.  Except this time?  I’m a redhead 😉

Biking around Brunnsviken, lake near new apartment

Biking around Brunnsviken, lake near new apartment

Biking to Djurgården

Biking to Djurgården

View from new apartment

View from new apartment

...lots of biking...

…lots of biking…

Making sushi

Making sushi

Homemade, handrolled.

Homemade, handrolled.

Church on a hill

Church on a hill

Sometimes boys sing to you in Sweden :)

Sometimes boys sing to you in Sweden 🙂

A little after-work at Humlegården

A little after-work at Humlegården

Drinks with a view in Södermalm

Drinks with a view

Chillin' on Skeppsholmen after work.

Chillin’ on Skeppsholmen after work.

Evening stroll on Kungsholmen

Evening stroll on Kungsholmen

Rockin' out with The Edukators!

Rockin’ out with The Edukators!

Rockin' out with The Rolling Stones @ Tele2 Arena on their European tour

Rockin’ out with The Rolling Stones

On our way to Jagger's after-party!

On our way to Jagger’s after-party!

Livin in bikinis

Livin in bikinis

Panorama from Dubrovnik, Croatia

Panorama from Dubrovnik, Croatia

Just a little beach party in Hvar

Just a little beach party in Hvar

Beautiful evening on Hvar, Croatia

Beautiful evening on Hvar, Croatia

Goodbye, Dubrovnik!

Goodbye, Dubrovnik!

There's nothing like coming home to Stockholm

There’s nothing like coming home to Stockholm

Breakfast picnic

Breakfast picnic

Stockholm by canoe

Stockholm by canoe

Lake day in Nacka with friends.

Lake day in Nacka with friends.

The one where…I SO totally BECAME A PRINCESS!!!!

When you wish upon a staaaaaarrrrrrr!  Makes no difference who you aaaaarrrreeeee!!

…I wish guys, I wish.  Theoretically speaking, I didn’t technically really become an actual, real-life princess 100%…yet…

But OMG that’s TOTALLY what it felt like!!!  At around noon today, I had the extreme privilege and honor of singing with the St. Jakobs Kammarkör for the opening ceremony of the Swedish Parliament (Sveriges Riksdag).  What a way to see yet another aspect of Swedish culture.  If you’d like to read a bit more about the government of Sweden, here is a wikipedia link to an English description:  http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Riksdag

A few weeks ago, I asked the assistant principal of the school where I teach if I could get a substitute to cover part of my lesson on September 17 so I could participate in these opening ceremonies in Gamla Stan (“Old Town” about a 20 minute metro ride from the school).  Since it’s my first month teaching at the school, I was a little nervous to ask for time off, but knew I would regret it if I didn’t just suck it up and ask (teachable moment here:  if it’s something you care about, ALWAYS just suck it up and ask, whatever it may be).  Of course, he thought it was great and agreed to let me go for a few hours.  Thanks, Mr. Bye!!!

At 10:30 I grabbed a triple cappuccino, hopped on the T-bana and headed towards my favorite island.  Walking through the narrow, cobblestone alleys always rouses that gentle voice in my head that says, “YO!  REED!  You live in freaking Europe!!!”  Today was no different.  I arrive at the church of Storkyrkan, the oldest in Gamla Stan, built around 1279 (if you’d like to read/see more: http://www.stockholmsdomkyrkoforsamling.se/page.php?p=202 Use Chrome and ask it to translate for ya 🙂 ) and have to show some ID to the police at the doors.  Yeah that’s right–My name was on The List.  What.  Up.  This is the cathedral where we sing Sunday mornings for locals and tourists, but it looked a bit different today, stocked with security and a long red carpet down the center aisle.  After gathering the choir and rehearsing our pieces, we head upstairs to put on our robes before the ceremony starts.

The choir begins the service up in the organ loft as the doors open and the first guests find their seats.  After two songs we head down to the nave and await the Royal Family, Prime Ministers and other super important people (I’m sure you were all really important, but the language barrier makes it a little tough to know what’s happening…I’m working on it…).  The choir queues  up in two lines as we wait to process down the center aisle.

As we’re waiting in the back, security closes all the doors as they prepare the Royal Family.  EEEEEEEEK!  The anticipation was killing me!!!  It was seriously like we were in a movie.  When they’re ready, the doors open up you hear the cameras start clicking away and the whole congregation stands as the Queen, King, two Princesses and two Princes smile and walk down the aisle.  OMG!!!  They were right there!!!  Then, the prime minister other super important people walk down the aisle behind them.  The organ starts the first hymn as we sing and process, listening to all those gorgeous Swedish voices fill up the cathedral.  When the choir arrives at the front of the church, I nearly died as I took my place an arm’s length away from one of the princesses and the Prime Minister.  They could probably smell my triple-shot cappuccino breath and hear my awful pronunciation of The Lord’s Prayer in Swedish they were so close!

As any choral musician would struggle to say, there really are no words to describe the ecstasy that is singing with others.  You will find choirs wherever you go in this world and there’s a reason for that.  A powerful, unifying reason that defies cultural differences unlike anything I’ve ever experienced.  And maybe it’s one of my life’s purposes to attest to that power–that no matter the occasion, the venue, the country, the people or the language it is always so uplifting to be involved in the art of sung music.  Today was no different and neither will the struggle be to describe the Te Deum, Credo, Gode Gud, My Soul’s Been Anchored and hymns that we sang for the Parliament, as we all dedicate another year of our lives to (hopefully) assist the country and its people in achieving together that simply indescribable, intangible idea of…whatever it is that makes us feel complete.  Happiness?  Fulfillment?  Good health?

Who knows if we will all figure it out, and it’s going to be different and difficult for everyone, but I’ll be damned if some good sangin doesn’t inspire us to try.Image

The one where we compare mud bug fests from around the world

Dear MSU,

Thank you for teaching me how to party.  I would not still be alive in Sweden without you.

Love,

Hal ’09

My very first weekend in Stockholm (Gay Pride) was evidence enough that Swedes are hardcore partiers.  There have been various shenanigans since then, but this past weekend, on my one month anniversary of arriving here, I had the privilege and honor of attending my first Swedish kräftskiva (crawfish party).  Now, I am no foreigner to the mud bug.  The Cajun tradition is alive and well in parts of Texas and Louisiana, boiling huge aluminum pots of crawfish in spicy seasoning, accompanied by corn, potatoes and some kind of cheap American beer by the bucket.  Yes.  Bucket.   Every summer before school let out, Cy-Fair High School would throw the staff a crawfish party in the old VFW building next door.  Gambling may or may not have been involved as well.

Who could have predicted that these very mediocre-tasting crustaceans would continue to be such an integral part of my social life.  Enter, The Kräftskiva.  Seriously, you’re going to make me keep peeling these things, barely getting any meat actually in to my mouth?  While you pour spirits down my throat?  I was skeptical at first but let me explain how the Swedes do it.  Take notes, y’all.

First, we start with some mingling and boxed wine.  When everyone arrives, you are instructed to sit boy-girl, so that no gender is sitting next to each other.  At every seat there is a Kräftskiva song book.  Yes, a song book.   Crawfish parties in Sweden are accompanied by the guests singing certain songs, which, for a group of choir nerds, meant a fully-harmonized song every 10 or 15 minutes.  After each song, you pour a glass of snaps, say “skål!” (cheers) to the lovely gentlemen sitting around you and…well…do that all over again in 15 minutes.  After the fourth or fifth song, they asked me to choose a spiritual to sing (Europeans LOVE spirituals!  It’s so funny!)  So, we end singing, like, five spirituals:  Joshua Fit The Battle, I’m Gonna Sing Til The Spirit, My Lord What A Morning, Keep Your Lamps and maybe another one?  It was absolutely bizarre and hysterical and I just kept thinking “what amazing rabbit hole did I fall through to get here?”  I wish I had the whole night on video.

One incredible addition to the meal was the Västerbottensostpaj (cheese pie).  Think quiche but less fluffy, just thick, dense cheesy goodness with crust.  The traditional cheese they use is from a certain region of Sweden called Västerbotten (I think.  The details get fuzzy at this point).  The meal also concludes with pie.  Chocolate pie.  Kladdkaka.  Literally translated “sticky cake.”  This stuff is ridiculous.  Rich, gooey, chocolatey and served with raspberries and chantilly.  During dessert, I demanded some Swedish lessons and this was by far the most important:  “Je mig mer kladdkaka!”  Give me more kladdkaka!

Around 1AM the crowd had thinned out, but I stuck around with about 10 of the boys and finished up some of the food and drink, hung out, helped clean up, took out the trash and then headed to one more establishment for a nightcap.  We all walked back to the T-bana through a typical Stockholm mist/rain/fog and with the help of a cab and a walking buddy, I made it back to my apt, the happiest I’ve been since moving here.

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To Stockholm, and beyond!

Remember how awful trying to write is?  I feel like I have high school writer’s block all over again.  However, an overwhelming, sensational journey has begun and, knowing I will kick myself in 20 years when I’m trying to tell my future children what I did with my life (…I can totally see this turning in to a How I Met Your Mother format…), I cannot let another second go by without documenting my first few days as an expat in Stockholm, Sweden.

Well, kids, it was the summer of 2012 in France and Spain and…well…more on that later.

Thursday, August 1, 2013:  Arrive at Arlanda airport at 9:30AM (best airport to EVER fly in to…OMG…the view), get two huge suitcases from baggage claim, follow signs for busses, buy a ticket to Centralstation (insert credit card and hope for the best…success!), try to stay awake on ride, meet new roommate Natalie and her life-saver of a vehicle, drive to apartment in suburb of Farsta, up the elevator to 8th floor and, voila, I’m home.  I have two cats now!  Simba and Nala.  Unpack a bit, it starts raining and I give in to a 2-hour nap…aaaaand we’re back for a walk to Farsta Centrum, the shopping center just a 5-minute walk from the flat (complete with an H&M, coffee shops, two grocery stores and other various places I can’t pronounce yet), get groceries (thank god for pictures on the packaging), walk back, make dinner and hang out with Natalie and her boyfriend, FaceTime mom and go to bed at 10:30PM.  Room is still a mess.

Friday, August 2, 2013:  Set alarm for 7AM, press snooze every 10 minutes until 8:30AM, shower, breakfast, walk to Farsta Centrum to buy SL card (one month unlimited travel for 810SEK, divide by 6 = approx. $135 USD), take T-bana to Centralstation and walk to Skatteverket which, I see upon arriving at the front door, has moved to a different location.  No wifi on phone for maps, don’t have Swedish data plan yet, so…time for lunch.  Double espresso and a tomate/mozza sandwich.  Take the T to Gamla Stan “old town” and soak in the gorgeous day and views (header photo).  Get lost for a bit, have another coffee, head to Stortorget to meet Gary Graden at the fountain in the old square.  Walk to office, sing some Bach 🙂 and sight read, chat and marvel as the smallness of the music world continues to open doors and opportunities across the globe.  Gary shows me around the old part of town and then I walk to the T on cloud nine, feeling like it’s all just meant to be.  Hang out with Natalie, meet some teachers from IESE who come to pick up a bed, they invite me out Saturday (yay!  I have friends!).  Natalie is going on vacay with her boyf so she shows me the laundry room, recycling room (…speechless) and bike room so I know where everything is while she’s gone. FaceTime and Skype with, like, 5 different people to show them the apartment, bed at 2:30AM…so now the jet lag starts.  Room is still a mess.

Saturday, August 3:  Wake up sick.  Miserable.  This always happens when I go through a life event.  My body just can’t handle what I ask it to do sometimes.  Stay in bed until 3:30PM even though it is gorgeous out my window.  Shower, eat, play with kitties, get dressed, T up two stops where I meet Sara, Suzanne and Amanda (another new music teacher from the States!) and walk to the house for dinner and drinks.  Meet the other roommates, hang out, talk and eat Stuart’s AMAZING chili.  Photo shoot.  T to center where we search for “Zipper.”  Have lots of fun.  Walk out of club at 4:30AM and it is already light outside #facepalm.  T back to Farsta, thinking they entire time (as my nose gets runnier and runnier, my throat more and more swollen, ears pounding, contacts drying out of my eyeballs) that Europe just might kill me…but it will be amazing.  Room is still a mess.  Need hangers.

Sunday, August 4: Did a truck run over me last night?  Was I tied to the T-bana and dragged behind it?  Sleep til noon, FaceTime mom, eat muesli (it is GOOD here), get motivated and TAKE THE IKEA BUS!!  Yay!  Biggest Ikea in the world!  I am a poor, single teacher on a new continent so duh I’m gonna eat dinner there, too, darnit and the cheapness of it helps disguise the fact that I’m eating cafeteria-style…alone…so I throw on a cinnamon bun and that completely disguises it!!  And yeah, it was warm.  Buy some frames, hangers, a cool light and a comforter and save the big decisions for when Mom comes next week.  Back to the IKEA!  I almost fall in a Swedish man’s lap while I struggle to walk down the narrow aisle with the big blue bag.  Embarrassing, Reed.  Back to apt, too tired to put anything together, load up my new hangers, chill on bed, start blog.  Room is slightly less of a mess.